2015 was the worst year for mould yet. Dealing with a little baby and the mould during rainy season was a nightmare, and I was desperate for anything to help. I commented to my sister that it would be great if there were something like aquarium snails that would just hand out in the bathroom eating the mould for me, and she said "maybe there is" and immediately googled this. It sounded good, so we went out to the garden and collected some slugs.
I had bought this mini flower pot as a hide for Tiger's pet snails.
There was plenty of mould for them to feast on :/
They only really took to the grouting, but that's OK, it's the hardest part to clean anyway.
The difference between the slugged side and the not slugged side is pretty amazing. Also amazing: a "gluten free" label on BUBBLE BATH. For all the people with Celiac disease who like to drink soap, I presume.
Sadly the experiment had to be cut short because we had so many textiles go mouldy that the bath had to be used to soak them in very unfriendly solutions for a few weeks so the slugs were evacuated back to the garden. One eventually found its own way back though. It made a little home under a shampoo bottle and sneaks out to help with the cleaning at a leisurely pace.
Tuesday 5 April 2016
Tuesday 9 February 2016
Leaving
This is hard to write, but even harder to do. We’re leaving Japan. It was not in our plan, but then, so much that happens in life isn’t that I’m not sure why we bother with plans anyway. We’re here until roughly summer, and after that we’ll be heading to sunny/windy/rainy/snowy Tasmania (you’ll understand if you’ve ever visited Tasmania).
It’s not you Japan, it’s us.
Well, it is a little Japan. Tiger needs a change and he
needs some support we can’t afford to provide here. We could have tried to find
a solution moving inside Japan, but there are other factors, the main one being
an extended family situation I don’t want to go into detail about but which
requires our presence ASAP. I have a ton of posts in my head waiting to be
written down, so I’ll keep the blog going until they run out and then see where
we’re at. I don’t know how well we’ll cope with repatriation. I really don’t.
I’ve spent more of my adult life in Japan than Australia.
We came to this decision (as much as it was in our hands,
anyway) at the end of summer. Tiger was away at a camp so we sat down that
night to hash out the details. We were fast being confronted with the bottom of
our very classy $10 bottle of wine when we heard music that just went on and
on. Eventually we decided to go and check it out. I strapped Cricket into the
carrier and we headed to the park. It was that bruise-purple light somewhere
between dusk and true darkness, and a horde of dragonflies hovered at waist
height, as motionless as the humid air. A little girl in a yukata called out
that she was going to dance and were we dancing too? An old man in his
old-man-uniform of dirty-white vest, waist warmer, and plastic slippers
complained that the walk across the park was too far. We all ended up at
Tiger’s school, where we realised it was the neighbourhood Bon Odori. We’d been
too preoccupied to pay attention to the date. We watched the dancers until the
purple turned to black and thought about how much we would miss moments like
these.
Tuesday 19 January 2016
Bandaids
At the end of a long frazzled day of dragging around town on public transport and a trip to the pediatrician for vaccinations I finally got home and Cricket was desperate for food. I cradled him and he started to nurse furiously only to break away after a few seconds crying. I latched him again, and again, furious nursing before pulling away crying. Tired, frustrated and now covered in leaking milk I was getting increasingly agitated and didn’t notice the father figure getting home. After watching quietly for a minute he suggested “why don’t you try the other side?” I flipped the baby over and he latched on… and his whole body relaxed as he settled in to feed properly. I asked in awe “what made you think of that?” and my lovely husband replied “I saw the bandaid from his shots and figured it might be painful to hold him with his weight on that arm.” I’d completely forgotten about the injection. Parenting Tiger is a lot like this, except he doesn’t have bandaids to helpfully warn us of sore spots. I was rushing to try and bring a load of laundry in before the clouds burst and dumped their rain down when Tiger came home from school and demanded toast. I toasted bread and dumped it on the table with a knife and the peanut butter jar then ran back outside. Cue much dramatic whining about how if I really loved him I’d spread the toast, everyone else IN THE WORLD gets their toast spread for them, and how much he hated me. As I dumped an armful of laundry and prepared to lecture him for being selfish and spoiled something about the sad way he was slumped at the kotatsu made me pause. “Have you ever spread toast before?” I asked, and learned that no, he never had, and he felt embarrassed to say so and frustrated because he was hungry. Instead of a fight we ended up having a lovely afternoon practicing on endless reams of toast. All too often, though, I miss the signs and fight when I should be nurturing. If only there were bandaids to warn me.
Sunday 10 January 2016
I Wish My Baby Would Read
Too busy for sleep |